6 Law of Attraction Dating Tips That Actually Work

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These powerful law of attraction dating tips centre around the idea of becoming a vibrational match to love and matching up with your idea of a perfect relationship.

Can you use the law of attraction for dating and attracting your soulmate? Absolutely you can! The law of attraction can be used to attract love just as you can use it to attract anything else into your life.

When it comes to your love life, dating, and finding your soulmate there tends to be a lot of very strong emotions involved. Emotion can be very powerful in either attracting or repelling the very things you truly want.

People who attract their soulmate and who have happy, joyous and truly magical relationships are not lucky.

They think and feel a certain way about themselves, about relationships and bout love in general. They may do it mostly unconsciously but still, it is their thoughts and beliefs that allow them to attract and maintain a beautiful love relationship.

You too can cultivate that attitude and by using the law of attraction you can attract your dream partner and have a beautiful relationship that will leave you feeling happy and fulfilled.

Sharing your life and your life experiences with someone you love not only makes life more joyous but it gives meaning to your life.

6 Powerful Law of Attraction Dating Tips To Manifest Your Soulmate

1. Know Exactly What You DO Want

Most people have a very long list of qualities that they do NOT want in a partner. This list is usually a list they maintain based on past experiences and previous relationships.

This list tends to dominate their thoughts. The law of attraction dictates that wherever you place your energy and your attention on, will manifest in your life.

If you place your energy and your attention on the things you DO NOT want, then that is exactly what will manifest in your life.

The universe does not respond to “don’t want” or any negative prefixes. It simply responds to the thoughts and ideas that you hold in your mind.

Holding the thought of what you DON’T want will, therefore, be attracted to you just as readily as holding the thought about what you DO want.

In fact, thoughts about what you don’t want, tend to be attracted to you more easily because you have a lot more emotion attached to it.

The first and most important step in the law of attraction is to get very clear on exactly what you DO want. The best way to do that is with what is called a dream partner list.

The rest of these law of attraction dating tips will mean nothing if you do not do this – and don’t put it off.

Here’s how you create a dream partner list:

  • Sit down and start writing down exactly what you want in your dream partner. Write down absolutely everything you can think of. Just brainstorm. You need to fill at least 2 or 3 pages.
  • Write down all the physical, mental, and emotional qualities that you are looking for.
  • If this list is hard, simply start by writing down everything that is the opposite pf what you don’t want.
  • Once you’ve finished your list, put it away for a day or two. If new ideas come up, add them to the list.
  • After a few days, go back to your list and start circling all the “must haves”. These are qualities in a partner that you won’t compromise on.
  • Keep working on your list until you have 10 to 15 qualities in a partner that you must have.
  • Keep this list with you and look at it at least twice a day – before you fall sleep and as soon as you wake up in the morning.

Don’t become obsessed with the list and evaluate everyone you meet based on the list to check if they meet your criteria. Just let go and live your life.

Keeping this dream partner list is truly magical. It works. It always does and has worked for thousands of people who truly did it and followed the steps.

It does not work overnight but in time it works because it invokes the law of attraction. One day you may have forgotten about the list already but when you look at your partner you will ee that they embody at least 90% of what was on your list.

2. Believe That You Can Have It

We all have this one overriding fear and that is that we are not good enough. Everyone has to deal with this. It is a universal fear that comes from being so dependant on your parents as a human being.

We seek and need love and approval to the extent that the withdrawal of that love and approval is a maternal fear.

When it comes to love relationships this fear comes up more than anywhere else in our lives. Those people who find love and happiness in intimate relationships are able to silence this fear that tells you that maybe you are not enough.

You need to start building the belief that you actually deserve what you want in your dream partner.

Why not?

Of all these law of attraction dating tips, this is perhaps the most important. Using affirmations is a great way to help you overcome this false idea that you are not enough.

3. Be Open and Receptive

The final step in the law of attraction is to allow what you want to come into your life. Knowing what you want and getting very clear on exactly what you want in an intimate relationship is enough to draw it into your life.

Allowing it into your life is where most people fail.

It is like a radio. Unless you are tuned into the right frequency you simply can not hear what is being broadcast.

When you are tuned into love and focused on the kind of person you want to attract then you can receive.

You also want to have a truly open mind because 99% of the time the “package” in which your ideal partner arrives will be very different from what you think it should be.

Do not be blinded by what you think you should have in a partner.

Only when you are truly open to anything and everything can you allow a soulmate to come into your life.

4. Become Whom You Want to Attract

Now that you know exactly what you want to attract in your dream partner, you need to become that yourself.

So many people make this mistake and that I why they never seem to attract their soulmates. You can not expect to attract someone who is loving kind and generous if you are angry, abusive and stingy yourself.

One of the most powerful understandings from the law of attraction is that you do not attract what you want.

You attract what you are.

You need to become whom/what you want to attract. This is often a huge wakeup call for people because now you realize that for things to change,m you have to change.

You have to become a “new person” and you have to embody the ideals that you want in someone else.

There’s something so magnificent about you. And as you love yourself, you’ll love others.

– Bob Proctor

There is a lot of interesting psychology around this idea as well, and the fact that we see in others what we want or lack in ourselves is another huge topic to delve into.

Your focus should be on your dream partner list and working on yourself to embody as much of that as possible.

As you become that, the law of attraction must bring people like that into your life.

Like attracts like.

5. Let Go Of The Junk

If you are filled with anger and resentment you simply can not attract love. In fact, living with that kind of junk inside you will only allow you to attract people and circumstances that are in harmony with anger and resentment.

When your heart is full of love and kindness then it spills over into every aspect of your life. You can not help but be attractive to other people.

People want to be around people who have that kind of energy. It feels good to be around someone who has nothing but love, peace and joy in their heart.

This is an authentic beauty that can not be bought and it can not be faked.

Being attractive has nothing to do with how you look although society may have us believe that. We’ve all met incredibly “attractive people” who look great but you soon find out they are complete jerks.

This does not mean you should not take pride in how you look and do everything you can to look your best. It simply means that you work harder on your inner self than on your outer self.

Start by forgiving anyone and everyone you have ill feelings towards. This is important for YOU as holding on to resentment will only poison your own mind and never allow you to truly be free to allow love to flourish in your life.

Start identifying all the things that cause you to be angry or resentful. Pick them off one by one and deal with it. Do not allow the fruits of anger to grow inside you.

To acquire love, fill yourself up with it until you become a magnet. –

– Charles Haanel

Start focussing more and more on the things and the people that you DO love. Allow love to grow inside you. The more you can allow the things and the people you do love the more love you will experience within yourself.

6. This Is Not That

Most people recreate the same relationship (or lack of it) over and over again because they run the same mental pattern. In dating, law of attraction actually becomes very obvious because our thoughts are so entrenched in our emotions.

Your beliefs about men or women will dictate how you think and feel about them. As soon as a relationship starts up you will start running these patterns based on your past.

This usually leads you to experience the same relationship over and over again – even if it is with a new person.

We all have these beliefs.

If you keep attracting the “wrong” people into your life then you simply have beliefs about them that cause you to do that.

Examine your past and identify your own beliefs. If you want to attract your dream guy, answer this simple question as truthfully as possible:

“All men are?”

Write down as much as you can to answer that simple question. Be honest with yourself.

This will reveal your false beliefs about men.

You may say, that this is “true” and that is what men are really like BUT that is only because that has been your experience – and your experience is only based upon your beliefs.

Look at all your beliefs and realize that none of them are true. They are all just an opinion and you can change it.

The world is full of wonderful single guys and girls who are exactly in your position. All the good ones are not taken.

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The Law Of Attraction, Dating and Finding Your Soulmate

So, what is it you are really looking for? Are you just dating for fun or are you really looking to meet your soulmate?

There is nothing wrong with either of these but it remains important to know what you want if you really want to use the law of attraction to help you in your love life.

Ultimately the person(s) or the lack of persons that you are or will attract into your life is determined by what you ARE.

The law of attraction can not be fooled. Like James Allen to poignantly pointed out – Your circumstances do not make you. They reveal you. They reveal your innermost fears, desires, and aspirations.

Do not allow your pst relationships and love experiences to dictate your future. You can create a beautiful relationship filled with love, joy, harmony and respect.

To do that you have to have the image and the vision of what that would look and feel like. You have to hold on to that image. Believe you can have it. Believe you deserve it. Then allow the magic to happen in your life.


With a passion for spirituality, self discovery, and understanding this life, Neod spends his time musing about what is, what could be and what might come about. After writing for 20 years he's still growing, learning, exploring and sharing with love, joy and compassion.

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